Thank you! I couldn’t agree more! I love sexually positive and confident people. :-D I’ll be sure to check out your blog!
You need to be honest with your boyfriend. Ask him if there are ways he will compromise so that you don’t have to do it every time, like perhaps a well lubricated hand job. Make sure he is aware that you will make compromises too; ask if there’s anything he’d rather not be doing, or that he could or you could do differently. Make sure to have this talk in a quiet, secluded, comfortable place. Avoid doing it right before, during, or after sexual activity. Avoid accusatory tone or phrases. Be sensible, polite, & straight forward! Good luck! :-)
I don’t think it’s weird at all. Lot’s of people are attracted to older men/women. It could be that you’re attracted to their matured bodies or maybe their experience. I think it’s important that you have fantasies & fetishes. Keep things realistic, safe, & fun and it shouldn’t be a problem. Don’t get into complicated situations, and ALWAYS communicate. :-)
Fantastic! Now you’ll never leave the house! :-P
My first tip is always: Never worry about being amazing your first time! No one ever is. Just be calm and do what comes naturally. If you try to force it or do something you’ve seen in porn, it will be awkward and cheapen the experience. Just communicate with your partner so you have a mutual understanding of what to expect. Take it slow and be safe! I hope it goes well. :-)
That is absolutely normal! Some girls have it the other way around. We’re all different! If you want to try and learn great ways to enjoy solo play more, there are some great resources on the web. I’d suggest doing it at a time you know you’ll be alone a while so you can relax. Use some visual stimulation and/or think of a time you really enjoyed yourself with someone else. I might also suggest you invest in a vibrator, something that will stimulate your clitoris. :-) If you’re a guy, same concept, different parts. Lol You can look at previous posts for better ways to spice up male masturbation!
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I’m well aware that they’re pricey, as I stated in my blog-post (maybe you should re-read it) but for me they are convenient and work amazingly. You can’t tell me that a sex toy is “terrible” because like most things we do for enjoyment, that’s very subjective. Perhaps you get no pleasure from them but, I have used Trojan Vibrating rings for both the purposes of self pleasure as well as during sex and I happened to enjoy myself immensely. I can’t see what’s so “terrible” about that!
I wasn’t shopping at a grocery store for my sex toy, I found it by accident while grocery shopping, tried it & liked it. In regards to Durex, I stated plainly in my blog-post (Again, maybe you should re-read it?) that I don’t care for their products. I’m also well aware that there are better products out there, but the Trojan rings were surprisingly satisfying for me and I wanted to suggest them to my followers. They, like me, may not have ease of access to sex shops OR may be younger, living with their parents, and don’t want high end vibrators coming through the mail or, just don’t want to order one online. This was a simple solution to that.